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Whenever some one says, "**motivation**" is way to **success**, I would like to remind every one, it is not. Motivation is CRAP and the real driver for success is and will always be "**Solution**" ! In fact, many successful people think, **motivation is not even part of their equation for success**. If you **see members**, who are seeing **explosive growth and uptrend in their success**, they are not relying on motivation or waiting for someone to come and inject them motivational insulin - No!. It's a **solution** to a **provlem** (**problem**), that **successful people** are working on to find and put on the market and the world. **Motivation** can let you do things, that you don't want to, but thinking, it will lead to success is not true. **Motivation** is a **crap TRAP** to hold your mind and focus on one thing and not loose to any other thing. To achieve success, you need to have to do things and to do things, you need "solution". Solution that is right for the best of all. **Motivation is garbage**, the way our mind works is to stop you from doing things, that hurt you and motivation can overtake those sense of power from your brain and drive you to do things, that can hury you easily and blind you on path that may or may not be successful. Finding the real solution to the provlem (problem) even without being motivation is they hack you need. We all have a habbit of hesitating and because we hesitate, we move away from things. Brain is good at magnifying thing that it feels is risky or can hurt the body and you will automatically move away from those thing. It's inside every one. Everything your brain stops at you and plays magnifying tricks to declare about risky people,place,animal,thing or situation, you seek motivation to overrule brain magnifying action. Taking control of your moment, finding solution and taking those decisions is the practical nature of living life. So, stop screwing yourself over and over again. **Find solution, take decision and drive towards success.**
Today, One person was sharing his sad story on other community networks, where he mentioned, he wants to switch his career. He is 46 years old now and he will be turning 47 in a few months. He currently lives at place, which is far from his children due to job. He doesn't like the company, he is working right now. In fact, he doesn't even care about the current job, but it pays him enough to survive and feed his family. The only thing, he loved about current company is, he met his "now wife" in same company. He loves her a lot, but the company has transferred his wife at different place and children has gone too with their mom. Now, at age 46, he is trying to switch his career as there is no related job in this new city, where he wish to go and live with his family & children again. In qualification, he had done B.A. in Theology. Just to switch his career or find job to a new city, he is even planning to do M.B.A or other Master's programs. Business is his least amount of interest group. But, he wants to do anything that can get him to job in a new city. He was asking for suggestion, on what should he do? He was feeling, **age** has taken him up and now, it's not possible for him to switch. He felt. he was not even ready to compete, survive and find new career in a new city. While reading to his story, I found, this could be very painful problem to many worker in world. He could not be the first one facing such issue. So, I thought to put this upto community and ask, What would you do? If you are at age 40/50/60 and stuck with similar situation?